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I've journalled about this subject before, but I noticed that James Buchanan has few entries in this blog, and now that there are more members in this group, I thought I'd resurrect this topic. As the only "bachelor president", many historians have speculated about the 15th president's sexual orientation. This speculation doesn't just stem from the fact that Buchanan never married, but rather from his close friendship with Alabama Senator (and later Vice-President) Rufus King and the openly affectionate correspondence that the two men carried on. Buchanan was openly teased both in and out of earshot about his relationship with King, and he made some very curious statements about that relationship. Coincidentally, King was the only bachelor Vice-President.

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In 1819, Buchanan was engaged to Anne Coleman, the daughter of a Philadelphia millionaire. She broke off the engagement after an "outburst of hysterics" according to historian John Seigenthaler. There was some speculation that Buchanan was only marrying her for her money, and the bride-to-be's awareness of this may have been what caused her to call off the nuptials. Coleman died shortly thereafter, quite possibly a suicide according to Philip Klein, one of Buchanan's biographers. Her attending physician said that this was the first instance he had heard of where "hysteria produced death." The physician's records list her cause of death as an overdose of laudanum, an opiate. Seigenthaler writes: "her parents would not allow Buchanan to attend the funeral and his letter of sympathy was returned unopened by her father. Buchanan swore never to marry in honor of her memory."

While in Washington, Buchanan's "room mate" was Senator Rufus King. The two men were virtually inseparable and were rumored to be lovers.They shared a house and a bedroom (this apparently was not uncommon for the time.) Many openly wrote and spoke this accusation. For example, Tennessee Governor Aaron Brown was sent to Washington as an advance man for President-Elect Polk, and wrote Polk back, describing King as Buchanan's "better half" and as "Aunt Nancy" (a derogatory term for homosexuals). Although Buchanan was unmarried, Brown writes to Polk: "General Saunders, in the presence of Mr. Buchanan and his wife and some others, advanced the opinion that neither Mr. Calhoun nor Mr. Van Buren had any chance to be elected...and being asked by someone, who then can be, he forgot himself and said that Colonel Polk could run better than any man in the nation. This of course was highly indecorous toward Mrs. B." Former President Andrew Jackson would also refer to Rufus King as "Miss Nancy" and "Aunt Fancy", both being derogatory terms for gay men in the 19th century.

Historian Robert Remini, a biographer of Henry Clay, writes that Clay "rarely missed an opportunity to mock Senator Buchanan" when the two were in the senate. He writes of an occasion when Clay said to Buchanan, "in a soft feminine voice": "I wish I had a more lady-like manner of expressing myself". Historian James Loewen supports the theory that Buchanan and King were lovers, noting that the two were referred to around Washington as "Siamese twins" which was contemporary slang for gay couples. Professor Loewen goes so far as to speculate that Buchanan's affection for the southerner King may have been what influenced the Pennsylvanian to have such strong pro-slavery views.

In 1844, President Polk appointed King as Ambassador to France. King wrote Buchanan telling him "I hope you will find no one to replace me in affection." Buchanan later wrote to a female friend, a Mrs. Roosevelt, that "I am now solitary and alone having no companion in the house with me. I have gone wooing to several gentlemen but have not succeeded with any of them. I feel that it is not good for man to be alone, and I should not be astonished to find myself married to some old maid who can nurse me when I am sick, provide good dinners for me when I am well, and not expect from me any very ardent or romantic affection."

King also wrote with sadness of his separation from Buchanan. In a letter to Buchanan in 1844, King wrote "I am selfish enough to hope you will not be able to procure an associate who will cause you to feel no regret at our separation. For myself, I shall always feel lonely in the midst of Paris, for here I shall have no Friend with whom I can commune as with my own thoughts."

Buchanan and King's nieces destroyed their uncles' correspondence, leaving many to questions what type of relationship the two men had. In the final analysis though, it's all speculation. Apparently, staff at the Wheatland (the museum that was once Buchanan's home) get angry and bristle at the suggestion when asked if Buchanan was gay. One historian notes that "there have always been gay men and women throughout history, in all walks of life, so why not in Buchanan's time?" As Buchanan biographer Michael J. Birkner writes, "what we know would not give even the most adventurous psycho-biographer much to go on."

(Buchanan to King: "I wish I could quit you...")

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(Was William Rufus King really a queen?)

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charlayne
Nov. 15th, 2010 04:45 pm (UTC)
Interesting. Not something I had heard in such detail.
miss_bushido
Nov. 15th, 2010 06:05 pm (UTC)
I admittedly don't know much about Buchanan at all, but this was really interesting to read.

He might've been, he might not've been. People speculated that Lincoln was gay with his one roommate {whose name escapes me at the time}, but I don't think he was, since it seemed as if he truly loved Mary.

What it comes down to; people always love to speculate about everyone else, and that has never and will never change.
kensmind
Nov. 15th, 2010 07:16 pm (UTC)
I think what fascinates me about this is what different times we live in. Whether this was a strong platonic friendship or something more physically intimate, Buchanan was able to be elected to high public office and eventually to the presidency without much scrutinty. The media did not focus on matters irrelevant to Buchanan's ability to serve in elected office. There's no way that CNN or Fox News would disregard something like this today I suspect.
miss_bushido
Nov. 15th, 2010 07:18 pm (UTC)
I didn't think about that before, but you're absolutely right. I wonder what that says about us today. I would say that it means we're nosier than we had been previously, but it probably has a lot to do with the media in general now. Public figure seems to equal "no private life".
seaivy
Nov. 16th, 2010 11:34 am (UTC)
There was a very interesting article by Ted Kopple in Sunday's Washington Post. He dealt with what happened to
TV news when parent companies decided news was no longer a service but had to make money.

People have always been interested in gossip. The big difference is that now it is readily available and "sanitized" by calling it "news".
kensmind
Nov. 16th, 2010 03:56 pm (UTC)
I think that's an excellent analysis of the current situation.
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